The very act of asking will cause the dynamic of the date to change. That question will actually cause her to become upset and lose attraction for her. You are worried that not everything is going as planned and your question becomes a self fulfilling prophecy.
If she is not ok then she will make it very obvious. You check up on her because you are greatly attached to how the date will end.
Nothing spells neediness and fear like leaning in when talking to other people. Leaning in when you talk is similar to a little kid pulling on their parents shirt for attention.
Seeking attention equals lack of attraction. Become a rock when you socialize. Hold your ground and never let your upper body lean in when she talks. Aloof might seem like a good idea but it is the wrong way to go about getting women attracted to you. You will start to attract the wrong type of women if you take this route.
Interacting with women can become nerve wrecking at times. Your mind is racing, heart pulsing and your stomach feels like how it would after a bachelor party. Breathing can help you curb some of this nervousness you feel. At first it will be very difficult to take long deep breathes when you are extremely nervous. In time you will start to anticipate that anxiety rising and you will breathe deeply to relax yourself.
Think of a time when you felt extremely comfortable and relaxed when interacting with other people. Odds are good that you were funny, smart and did all of the right things without even trying. Learn to develop that calm state through breathing deeply around women and in social situations. It serves to fill the conversation because you fear that oh so dreaded awkward silence.
Learn to become comfortable with awkward silence. Take a week or even a month and talk as half of much as you normally do. You will learn about a million different lessons but the most important lessons to take away are:. Choice is powerful and power is extremely attractive to women. You can stop talking as much and everything will be OK. People who talk too much do so because they fear not being liked. They believe that the more they talk to more people will pay attention to them and bettering their chances of being liked.
Shy people have a very difficult time looking other people in the eyes and surprise, surprise they also do very horrible with women. When you talk to people look them in the eyes. Over time you will learn to gain balance between no eye contact and too much eye contact. Walk down the street and try to catch the eyes of any women you see.
Hold that eye contact till THEY look away. There are people who naturally talk fast but a lot of this behavior is learned and thus can be unlearned. When you think of a slow talker think of James Bond. The way he introduced himself to women was extremely attractive. He had women soaking their panties within seconds and all he did was tell them his name. This would never happen if he had introduced himself like a crack head in a hurry trying to get a fix.
Take a moment to pause and breathe before saying anything. There are, in essence, four major categories of seduction skills: physical enhancement, flirting abilities, conversational skills and personal charm. Your success with women is greatly dependent on the manner in which you manage to leverage them and improve on all four dimensions each step of the way.
Here are the three seduction skills you NEED to have, and how to use each of them in order to finally get those awesome women you dream about.
There are various ways to make yourself look better, from practicing sports, to dieting and making smart choices that emphasize your physical qualities and diminish your flaws. This includes grooming yourself and choosing your clothes wisely.
When it comes to grooming, it is paramount to maintain perfect hygiene. Take extra care of your teeth and ensure your breath is always fresh -- otherwise, it can be a major turn-off. Use plenty of deodorant; sweating is another major repellant. Adopt a clothing style that suits your body shape. You don't have to keep up with the latest fashion trends, but you do have to put on some nicely cut clothes that fit you perfectly.
Make smart choices that highlight your positive features. For instance, opt for molding t-shirts to show a nicely shaped chest and arms or for waist-cut shirts if you're on the skinnier side. It has been scientifically proven that one's scent is a major turn-on, so invest in a little cologne.
Enhance your physical appearance by adopting some smart and immediately visible habits. Here are a few to start you off:. Did you know that about 90 percent of communication is nonverbal?
Your body language, tone and rhythm of voice are what get the message through in an overwhelming percent. In this context, it's only natural that the prevalent element in the seduction game is played by flirting. Here are some tips on the flirting techniques you should use throughout your interaction with a woman before, during and after approach :. As you're talking, pat her shoulder and rest your hand there for a moment. Then, when you're already familiar with each other, hold your fingers on the inner side of her arm, and perform gentle movements in circle It's usually a turn-on.
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